The World of
Grandpa Don
Current Events
In the life of Grandpa Don
On this page I have
recorded what I found significant during the past week as well as my
thoughts about those events and other reflections. I started doing
this before the practice became popular and before it had a name.
This is my "Blog", written a little each day and published weekly. |
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A work in progress - complete
but not finished
Week Ending
Friday October 12, 2007
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Words of Wisdom ... |
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"Remember,
happiness doesn't depend upon who you are or what you have
-- it depends solely upon what you think."
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Before I presume to pray ...
for my offenses against God
and everyone else, I ask pardon.
I invite you
to
Pray with me ...
in gratitude for the
gifts of God and for the wisdom to be good stewards of His
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A
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If
you find yourself in a hole, stop digging.
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Bono
Vince Malum
Overcome Evil with Good |

Knight Grand Officer |
Chev. Donald J Plefka, KGOStI,
OMStl At-Large Priory Commander |

Order of Merit III |
The Order of St Isidore
of Seville
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My grandmother was a Packard!
No, silly, ... she wasn't a car. She wasn't even related to the family that
built the cars ... at least we don't think she was. But, thanks to some
sleuthing by Peggy Cecora, we have a very probable continuous line of
Packard's from Woodbridge, [parish], Suffolk, England in 1410 to grandma
Clara Florence Packard (1882 - 1957). There is a sketchy period between
about 1800 and 1850 that requires more documentation when (we believe) the
family lived in Hebron Maine. (Originally part of Massachusetts). I found
the address of a member of the Packard family who lives there now and have
written to him to see if he can provide documentation and additional
information. In the mean time I have updated the page to include what we do
know as well as our supositions. See Packard Page .
While working on that, I referred to my book,
Mayflower Families, and found that there were even more instances of
intermarriage in the families of Alden, Copeland, Packard and Thayer. These
families, it seems, were meant to be joined and I guess that have been
selected to do it again. I added a new page to the family section to record
it all. See
The Mingling of Family Lines .
Saturday morning Anne Marie came over and
planted the new Arkansas Blue Stars and the Frikarts Asters. There were
three of each and they replaced six of the Almost Wild Roses that were
either dead or doing poorly. One rose was in fair condition and was left in
place ... on probation. The new plants will take root over the
fall and winter and grow to 24" - 36" next year. Thanks Anne Marie.
Fr. Steve's homily on Sunday was one of those
that struck a cord. The gist of it is that we don't go to mass to get faith,
we already have that or we wouldn't be there. We don't get "more" faith
either, we already have all we need. But we go to cultivate our faith and
make it grow so we can not only use it, but share it with others.. A
different slant on things! It made me think. Going to church is like reading
the paper or a magazine. Not every article interests us but we buy it in the
hope of finding a few that do. Too many people expect to be entertained
continuously at church and complain when it doesn't happen. They don't
realize that they are part of the cast and must do their part by
participating. That makes the time go by all too quickly and every once in a
while a gem of faith will become visible in the process. Each time,
something will be relevant to some of the congregation, as each one has
different needs. Just as the articles in a magazine will appeal to different
people depending on their individual interests and needs.
Speaking of cars ... and we were when we
started this page, ... my cousin, Gay, sent
some photos entitled When
Autos Were Art . These were the cars that Clara Florence
Packard
(photo at right) would have known during her life in an era when
cars were automobiles ... and they, like the people who rode in them, had
style, individuality and character, They had "Class!". Even the term
"Automobile" had character. People named their autos and took pride in them.
Enjoy the photos and try not to drool all over your keyboard. Carriages
became cars. When horseless carriages evolved through automobiles,
then autos, to cars, many of their owners had to reinvent their character.
And so, I Invite you to view
What We
Drove (in the 50's & 60's) also sent by my cousin. Thanks Gay.
Flashback! ...
Saturday was Homecoming at Andrew HS. We have a couple photos of Kelsey and
her friends. (Talk about CLASS!) Where are the boys? Well, ...
we all know that the boys aren't the important ones.
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Karen also sent a
photo of the pool along with some added news.
Ana won on
Sunday. Their soccer team is in first place in their division.
The pool is
filled. They were scheduled to hook up the equipment on Thursday
and then leave it open 'til the end of October. Whether we they
have a day in there to swim, we'll have to see. |
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Not many people sign my guestbook but I have
had to make a change in the way it functions. Due to the number of postings
which are actually advertisements, pushing commercial web sites,
I have disabled the automatic posting of all entries. From now on, I will be
notified when someone has signed the book and I will need to approve it
before it is posted. That will spare viewers any drivel from these
inconsiderate clods. It is too bad that this is necessary. I would prefer to
be able to trust everyone, but ...
Biscus came into the house Tuesday. I use a
two wheeled truck to move him in. He is on a rug, surrounded by a couple of
chairs laying on there sides. When he is outside, Mikey generally greets him
with the hind leg salute and we would like to avoid that in the house. He is
too heavy for me to lift to his usual place on a low table and we will need
to wait for help to get him there. We
enjoyed the last of the long series of "Gazebo Days" and can look forward to
a series of cool days and much cooler nights. My tropical hibiscus would not
survive that. But, I enjoyed several hours in the garden albeit a bit windy.
Wednesday morning was cool and cloudy and
Mikey left me to sleep until 7:45. I had
work
to do on the parish web site. Liz was out of town so I did her portion of
the update as well as mine. I also spent some time on the phone wit Rich
Thayer. He is a fellow parishioner and choir member at St. Julie and I had
sent him an email about my grandmother on my father's side, Jennie Thayer.
We know of no obvious connection but exchanged a bit of information that I
will follow up on to see if we are related. Jennie's life was tragically
short, having died just eleven days after the birth of my father in May of
1900. She is pictured at the left.
Thursday morning I brought Mikey to Touch of
Class for his bi-weekly grooming. I had a few minuets and sitting down in
the living room it occurred to me that I should be able to lift Biscus the
18" necessary to have him settled into his winter quarters. Knowing that you
should not lift with your back and that my legs and knees would not do the
job, it was up to my arms. I positioned myself so that I would not need to
turn more than a couple degrees while bearing the weight, and lifted him on
to the low table. No problem! He then got a long drink of water laced with
plant food and looks quite happy about the whole thing.
After Bible study, I checked my email and
soon got the call that Mikey was ready to come home. So I was off in the car
again. On the way home the "Low Tire Pressure" light came on and sure
enough, the right front was low. I had a quick lunch and went off to the
local tire shop to have it checked out. A few weeks ago, my son Dan had
mentioned that my front tires were well worn and that I should replace them.
The service manager informed me that I had a large screw imbedded in the
tire and also that the front tires were due for replacement. Selection was
made and I was soon on my way home with good rubber for the coming winter.
In addition, they found that one of the rear tires was a bit low and for no
additional charge repaired a rim leak.
The outcome of my trip to the dentist was not
as productive. He recommended some extensive repairs. I need a crown
replaced on a lower tooth. The big problem on the upper jaw would entail
either a permanent 9 tooth bridge along with the preparation work which
would cost in the neighborhood of $10,000. An alternative would be a
removable denture which would cost about $1,600. I am not excited about
taking a bunch of my teeth out every night and putting up with dentures. On
the other hand, I could go the expensive way and I could leave
instructions that when the time comes I be laid in the coffin with a big
smile on my face to show my beautiful teeth. (Maybe not!) A decision
will need to be made.
Another decision will not be as difficult. I
track all my finances using Microsoft Money. It recently started refusing to
open. A fix was found on the internet but it has several options and is
quite involved. There has been a upgrade to the program available for
several months that I have been delaying to implement. Now is the time.
That, I believe will be the project for today after this weeks Current
Events update is completed.
Friday morning ... and it is in the 40's ...
but calm. The lawn guys will be coming today so I put on a light jacket and
a hat and scoured the yard for gold, the gold left by Mikey. My intention
was to come in and have my visit with God and Anne but it was so pleasant
and quiet that I just sat down in the sun next to the patio table.
Delicious! I didn't have my little prayer book, my book of reflections or my
coffee but I could not disrupt the moment by getting up for them and instead
started my morning reflections without them. At the end of my usual prayers,
when I ask God to help us to be good stewards of the gifts he has given us I
realized that the problem with my teeth is due to the failure on my part to
do just that. Our body and all it's components are a gift from God. I have
not given my teeth the daily care they need and there have been long
stretches between visits to the dentist. I am now faced with the results of
my failure to maintain them. But that is only one symptom of the
problem. It extends to my general health which is in trouble because I have
neglected to be a good caretaker of what God has given for my lifetime on
earth. I often say "If I knew I was going to live this long, I would have
taken better care of myself." The fact is that I never really thought about
the long term effects of what I ate and how much I ate, or how lazy I had
become in refusing to maintain muscle and joints by using them.
We are entrusted with the care of valuable
things and many of us are poor stewards of this trust. We mistakenly think
(if we do at all) of stewardship in terms of money, but money is only a
small part of it. It starts with our own bodies and extends to the resources
of the earth, given by God for our use. All these things are given to
provide for our needs and we are to take enough to satisfied our legitimate
needs, and not greedily taking more than we need. We must also maintain
these gifts so that they are available for the future. We should no more
pollute the air and water with harmful waste than we should pollute our
bodies with harmful food drink or dugs.
We have been given the raw materials and the
knowledge to build cities, roads, and wondrous things but our lack of
stewardship extends to the failure to maintain them. Bridges fail as do
sewers, water pipes and pavements. We are reluctant to spend the money to
maintain them. (Who wants to pay more taxes?) We have been given the
knowledge to build factories and chemical plants to improve our lives with
all manner of goods. (They are called that because they are "good".) But in
our shortsightedness or greed we make more than we need and squander our
resources, polluting the earth with waste in the process. That is a failure
in our stewardship of God's gifts.
I envision God as saying, "I gave them
everything they need to make a great life but they are really making a mess
of it by not sharing it and not maintaining it."
By the way, I took extra time in brushing my
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The name Shepardsfield may have some
significance as the possible origin of our ancestor's first name.
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More next week ...
and 'till then, ...
Let's be more kind than we need to be.
Grandpa Don Plefka
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Anne
wanted everyone to be 'Nice'.
This button was in one of her dresser
drawers I cleaned out in August of 2004
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