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for my offenses against God and everyone else, I ask pardon. 

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Spirit of God, You have given us life when we choose cooperation over competition, forgiveness over revenge, humility over conceit and love over hate.
Inspire us now to turn our lives around to follow the path of Christ, putting on His attitudes and choosing God's will over our own human weaknesses.
Give us wisdom as we confront moral dilemmas that perplex and confuse us.
Help us as we surrender to Your reign of justice, Joy, and peace.
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Maybe I am being punished. ??? In my early and mid adult years I hated Halloween. When I got home from work it was supposed to be my time to eat supper and relax, not to be disturbed by a bunch of brats ringing the door bell demanding candy. I didn't have the option of working late because it was my child's birthday. What a curmudgeon I was! But I have changed. I now love to see these little ... and even the not so little ... children in their costumes, come to the door for their treats. Some are (not so) brave heroes, and some are little princesses (to whom I bow and address as "your majesty"). Some are ghosts and goblins and I fain fright as I timidly open the door. All are precious and welcome visitors. This past Halloween evening I was prepared with five big bags of candy and having opened three of them to fill a basket placed near the door and with the front door opened on that mild evening, the porch light on as well as the lights in the living room and front hall, I was ready, but wondering if I had bought enough candy. Alas, in the afternoon they started to arrive in all their glory, the smallest ones with their parents, some of them in costume as well. There were four small groups, and I gave candy to 12 delightful visitors and that was it! As darkness fell, and evening progressed, Mikey would bark in anticipation as a few groupsMy dog Mikey passed by but didn't approach my door. I even waived at some of them but they hurried on their way. I don't know if they didn't want to deal with my vicious hound or if someone had put a sign on my house which said, "Danger ... A Nasty Old Curmudgeon lives here and he will give you bitter candy and steal your good candy." I consider myself chastised for my former attitude. The real punishment will come in the ensuing days as I consume all this candy. God have mercy on my glucose levels. After all ... "waste not, want not."


Good friendships are fragile things and require as much care as any other fragile and precious thing.
~ Randolph Bourne

 

Saturday was quiet. a little cooler but I did enjoy a respite on the patio in a light jacket. Mikey likes me to be out there while he goes through and around the garden catching scent of the squirrels and rabbits that have visited there. But if I don't go out with him his adventures are brief, at best. He keeps returning to the sliding door. If he see me sitting at the table he'll turn and venture out for a while but he wants to know that I am there to let him back into the house. Having little to do, besides some laundry, I spent quite a bit of time catching up on my National Geographic reading. I had neglected several issues during the time my right eye was "foggy" but now that it is clear I can enjoy reading again ... and I do.

 Sunday I was up for early (9 AM) Mass. There was a reserved section for the recently accepted members and Sarah was told that this was a special event for the new members, a follow up on their instructional period. As I told her later, we Catholics are not above subterfuge. After mass, she and another newbie were presented with shawls by the parish Shawl Ministry in celebration of their becoming Catholic.  This is usually done at their Confirmation Mass but the shawls were not ready at that time. Sarah was delighted with the colorful shawl.

Back at home, my cousin Ken Snyder called. He and Bob are planning to make the visit to our cousin Diane Lambert in Indiana this Wednesday. It is a trip I can not take in my present condition. I could not even make it through mass that morning without a break in the necessary room. I am not scheduled to see my urologist until the middle of December but I intend to contact him during this week. We definitely need to talk.

John Barilla, my sister Rita's husband, continues to be besieged with health problems. Last week the portal for his dialysis treatments became clogged and a temporary one had to be installed as well as a new permanent one. Prayers ... prayers ... prayers please.

 

Always be yourself.
Because the people that matter, don't mind
- and the ones who mind, don't matter.

 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY  to a whole bunch of great people this week. We start with my granddaughter Kelsey, now a HS senior, followed by her sister Ana who shares the day with my brother-in-law Harry Lawler and then my grandson Joe who has reached the magical 3 X 7. Not to be forgotten is my newly discovered niece Janice Web, daughter of the sister I never met, Jean (Copeland) Rutzen. Congratulations to all of you and may you all enjoy many happy and prosperous years on your journey through life. May each year be better that the last and may you leave each year better than you found it.

We had celebrated Kelsey and Ana's birthday with their father's last week. Dan, Karen and Ana had gone to St Louis for a soccer meet leaving Kelsey at home.. Karen reported:

"The weekend was really nice. The weather was great, in the 70's and the girls played hard. Unfortunately, they only won one game and did not move into the championship. They lost two girls in the Sunday morning game, one to sickness and one to an injury in the first half, so they only had one sub, which really hurt them.

 

Kelsey had a good time. They went to sectionals. Andrew did as well as they had expected but will not move on to state. A lot of competition this year. Kelsey's friends took her to Tokyo Steak house for dinner for her b-day and she had a great time."

And in a follow-up message ...

"I forgot to mention that Kelsey got accepted to Elmhurst College on Saturday. She received a great scholarship, $56,000 over 4 years!! We will meet soon with an admissions counselor and she will do an overniter. Then she will make her final decision."

Visit Elmhurst College. Good going Kelsey.

Sunday afternoon I joined the Albano clan at their home for the celebration of Joe's birthday. Even the three dogs were there but Anthony was visiting Ashley in Indiana. I solved my excess Halloween candy problem by bringing most of it to my grandsons. I did keep a little for myself. Shame on me! Roast beef and dumplings were the main fare and of course that was followed by birthday cake. I returned home for a bit of TV followed by the comfort of my bed.

Monday, after my normal activities, I went to the Trib Local web site's voting guide. I knew who was getting my vote for the major offices but was totally ignorant on a couple minor races and of course for the always confusing Judicial races. It is a great web site which, after you input you address, leads you through the choices which will appear on your ballot. If you were unfamiliar with a particular candidate you could look at his or her answers to questions on the issues. You also had the option to look at the newspaper's recommendations. As you went along, you could mark your ballot and when finished, print it so it could be taken with when you vote on Tuesday. The site is well done and I only wish there were some way to simply record my votes on the internet for the election itself. That will probably come within the next ten years.

I didn't need much, mainly milk and OJ, ... a few other things but I went foraging for food on Monday after lunch. It was a delightful day, 20 degrees above normal. For some strange reason, I am able to go longer in the afternoon without bathroom breaks than in the morning or evening. I also noticed that my problem was not as severe on Monday. Could it be that there is actually an improvement? Perhaps we will give it a little more time. As they say, Rome wasn't built in a day. After feeding Mikey we took advantage of the sunny warm day ... A bonus day, I call it ... and enjoyed a sojourn in the gazebo. Delightful! The leaves are falling from the maple trees and the rustling of the leaves in the breeze had the musical accompaniment of the wind chimes.  Shortly after returning to the house, my "mail chime" announced the arrival of the day's mail. There was a prescription delivery, a bunch of junk and an invoice from National Geographic which they said I had requested. If there it one thing that gets my goat, it is incompetence. I did not request an invoice. I had used their web site to renew my subscription and after doing so, tried to renew the gift subscriptions that I have been giving for Christmas. The option to renew gift subscriptions was no longer available on the web site ... it was there before I had renewed my own but now ... gone! I sent an email of complaint asking how to renew the gift subscriptions through the web site. I expected a reply ... not an invoice. So, I marched down to the computer and signed into their web site and found the option to renew gift subscriptions now available. In a few clicks, they were charged to my credit card and I was all set. I was now presented with the question as to whether I wanted to renew my personal subscription. Apparently you must renew gifts first and then your own. I hope I remember that next year. The problem with web designers is that their logic is not always the same as my logic.

 

Power always thinks it has a great soul and vast views
beyond the comprehension of the weak.
John Adams  

  

WOW     Super Achievement news ... This from Diane Plefka ...

 Just wanted to let you know, the Marist swim team participated in the Metro Catholic Aquatic Conference yesterday. There were four new team records set by the Marist squad - and 3 of those belong to your granddaughters.

Caitlin set a new team record in the 100-yd. and 200-yd. freestyle events and Kelly set a new team record in the 500-yd. freestyle. Kelly dropped over 12 seconds off her personal best in the 500!

We have one more meet on 11/15 at Sandburg for sectionals and Caitlin is still just short of her personal goal to break the minute for the 100-yd. freestyle. Her time on Sunday was a 1:00.18 so it is just a 'blink' off.

Congratulations to our girls. That is splendiferous! Are those parents proud? You betcha!  Grandpa too.

Faith is like radar that sees through the fog
 – the reality of things at a distance that the human eye cannot see.
~ Corrie Ten Boolm

Tuesday was a carbon copy of Monday. Some time was invested in the parish website in the morning and although I intended to vote after lunch, the spirit moved me and I left the house at 10:55 to beat the lunch crowd at the poles. I was back home on the swing in the yard at 11:20. My votes were cast for the candidates of my choice and I was satisfied that I did what I could to put people in office who would be (in my opinion) best for the country, state and county. Now it is up to them, hopefully, not so much to do the will of the people but to lead the people in peace, justice and prosperity. We hope they don't take on the roll of gods in the sense that they abuse the power we give them but maybe they will, like God, have the wisdom to give us what we need, not what we ask for.

After lunch I went around turning off some valves and turning others on to shut down my lawn sprinkler system. That done, I coiled up the garden hose in preparation for storage. My intent was to start to put the patio furniture in the shed but the previous tasks had left me winded so I just sat in the sun on the swing as Mikey sniffed through the leaves. I had done enough for the day.

Early in the evening I watched an episode of Eli Stone that I had recorded and then went to the election coverage. It was quite obvious that Barak Obama was going to win early on. Mixed emotions! He was not my choice due to his views on abortion and the Democratic party's tendencies toward socialism as well as their apparent plan to remove our forces from Iraq prematurely. And yet it was a historical event and, assuming he will make good and wise decisions, an assumption for which I ardently pray, his election could be a step toward making this nation even better than it is in our search for justice and equality for all mankind. There are those among us who actually believe you must be Caucasian in order to be intelligent. Obama could go a long way in convincing them they are not correct.

As we stumble through life, succeeding here and failing there each of us is judged on our choices ... individuals as well as governments. Neither is perfect and neither has all the answers.  Barak Obama is the President Elect. I will pray for him ... that God will guide him ... and that he will accept God's guidance. I will also give him the respect that is due to him as man and president. Judgment is in the future and not in my hands.

 I firmly believe that morality can not be legislated and abortion is a moral issue. At the same time I believe that there is no one more disadvantaged and in need of protection than an unborn child. The argument is made that we do not know at what point human life begins. To me, there is little difference between life and the potential for life and it is in this matter I would rather err on the side of safety. It is on this subject that I question Mr. Obama's judgment the most. Maybe he will change or if not, maybe he will not have the opportunity to influence the matter in any way. In the matter of socialism, I feel that the goals are good and noble but it's application should be in the hands of the individual in the form of stewardship of God's gifts and not in the often wasteful and often misguided hands of government. My fervent hope is that there remains enough balance in the legislature in both parties so that drastic and permanent damage can be avoided. In the mater of Iraq, again it is my hope that wisdom will prevail. I think it can. Yes I will pray for our President elect. I will pray that he will be the greatest president we ever had, for his sake, yes, but more for the sake of this nation.  I will pray that I have been wrong in my evaluation of him, for this is another instance when it would be better for me to be wrong.  

There is only one meaning of life, the act of living itself.
 ~ Erich Fromm

 

My morning reflections were delayed on Wednesday. As I was about to begin, Anthony arrived. He had taken his mom to the train and then drove Joe to school. He had planned to stay here and after Joe's last class, bring him here to move the patio furniture into the shed but wondered if he could do some of it without Joe. Sure he could. I showed him how to use my two wheel dolly to move the glass table and in no time everything was put away. Thank you Anthony. We had time to sit and talk before he left to look at cars at the nearby dealers. He is afraid that his will not make it through the winter.

After lunch I sat in the gazebo for a while on the "winter chairs" that I leave there for exceptional days. It was about 70 degrees but too windy for comfort, When I came in I brought the wind chimes in with me and then rolled the propane grill into the garage. The patio is now naked save for the leaves that have collected there. Two of the maple trees are almost naked as well. A short trip was made to the nearby Home Depot Store and a six moth supply of furnace filters purchased. I use a premium filter supposedly good for 90 days but since I run my furnace fan continuously it is black in a month and in need of replacement. But the air is constantly filtered and circulated making for a healthy house. Better to get those filters on this day than wait until it snows. 

Thursday morning I should have gone to Bible Study but I just wasn't up to it. Not that I was sick but I did not want to cut short my morning reflections. The time to leave the house came and went while I thought of the passage for the day in the C. S. Lewis book and I remembered family, friends both near and far as well as life in general. For that morning and that time it was the most important thing for me to do.

The day was invested in reading. In the afternoon I got a call from Deacon Mike who was trying to email information about a new ministry at the parish so that a web page could be created. We solved the problem and soon I was working on it. I invite you to visit "Feed My Sheep". .The pages are not difficult to build. I simply use an existing page as a starting point giving me all the "boiler plate"' then replace the details with the new information and select a new graphic. Then the main pages for the ministry group, in this case, "Human Concerns" needed to have a link to the new page added. A link was also added from the main  "Our Faith" page. The new page along with the revised pages were uploaded to the server and it was done. And email was then sent to Mike to let him know it was done and also to Liz to let her know to add it to the "Spotlight" section of the web site's home page to bring it to the attention to our parishioners.

 

He that can’t endure the bad will not live to see the good.
 ~ Yiddish proverb

 

This morning, reflecting on the election, it occurred to me that there is an area in which I whole heartedly agree with our President Elect. We should be talking with those with whom we do not agree. At the very least, if we are talking, we are not fighting. In addition, an exchange of ideas can often lead to understanding. We can understand another's motivations without agreeing with them on all things and in doing so we can come to compromise on some issues without giving away the store.

Governments and their leaders should be concerned with peace and justice, not just for their own people but for all people. Prosperity for me is not justice if it means poverty for you. Neither is the opposite. Opportunity for me is not justice if it means despair for you. Our constitution speaks of "Liberty and Justice for all". I take that not to refer to 'all Americans' but for all mankind.

My daily prayer includes ... "I pray for all leaders who work for peace and justice, and all those who should."

Simplicity is making the journey of this life with just baggage enough.
~ Anonymous

 

We will have a new president and I pray for him. I pray that the Ego that I perceive him to have is controllable, or that my perception is wrong. (There are times when I need to be wrong)  I pray that he rises to the occasion with the wisdom of Solomon and none of his faults. I pray that we will have learned from past mistakes and that our leaders make prudent choices. And, in my opinion, that means being real leaders and doing what is prudent and right, not what they think the people want. We too often pander to our own egos and forget the message of Jesus.

For my part ... I am ...

Too blest to be stressed.
Too anointed to be disappointed.
Too overjoyed to be annoyed

 

 
Be more kind than you need to be 

Grandpa Don Plefka

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