The World of Grandpa Don
Last Sunday morning Dom and Anne Marie picked me up to meet Dominick and Sarah for the 9:00 AM Mass. We gathered in the narthex (vestibule) of the church and when Fr Steve and Deacon Ed Pluchar processed in, the Cross bearer and candidates stopped at the baptismal font. After reverencing the alter, Steve and Ed returned and introduced the candidates to the assembly, than asked each in turn, "What do you ask of God?" and "What do you ask of the church?". After each had answered in their own words, Fr Steve asked "Do you, the sponsors, and the assembly agree to help and support our candidates in this quest?", to which we affirmed, "We do.:" All the while, Dominick and I stood with hands on Sarah's shoulder as co-sponsors. The entrance procession then continued in the normal manner and we were escorted to our pews. After the scripture readings and homily, Fr. Steve addressed the candidates, explaining that at this point candidates are normally dismissed for further reflection on the scriptures but because they were so well instructed in their faith, they were invited to remain with us. It was an exceptional moment. Then at Communion time, he approached them and invited them to watch and learn so that they would soon be ready for full Communion with us. ... Again, an exceptional moment. With Sarah next to me during the mass I was surprised ... but not really ... that she knew the prayers and responses as well as I did. There was about a 45 minute instructional period for the candidates after Mass which I would have normally attended but the contraption I was wearing due to Friday's prostate surgery needed attention so Dom and Anne Marie took me home. I spent the rest of the day in reflection, relaxation and later of course watching the closing ceremonies of the Olympics. Except for a little discomfort, it was a glorious day.
Monday there was a 8:45 appointment with the nurse to remove the catheter. Dan insisted on taking me and I was glad he did. Not that I could not have gone myself, but we all felt more secure having him drive. It was done very quickly and he had me back home by 9:15. At that point, I was very happy to be rid of that irksome, but necessary device and was feeling no discomfort whatsoever. I was required to drink a glass of water for every hour and call the nurse at 3:00 to let her know that my "plumbing" was working. By 10:30 it had started to do so, Since there was undoubtedly internal swelling, I am not to expect to be 100% functional for some time but will experience gradual improvement, taking up to a month to be fully healed. The doctor will see me then. A little before 3 the required call was made and I was able to report that the plumbing was fully functional , at least as good as prior to the procedure and there were no problems. All was right with the world. Bob Lewis sent a little story, a parable if you will, that goes a long way in pinning down the problem with our perception of life. I invite you to view Hot Chocolate . Thanks Bob. But we can't be serious all the time which brings us to another subject. Years ago I thought Ellen DeGeneres was one of the funniest and most talented people on TV. Then she "came out" and I got turned off. I have even been known to refer to her as Ellen Degenerate. She hadn't changed but my opinion of her changed. Recently I have seen bits of her show and have come to realize that I have been showing my prejudges towards her. We don't have to agree with a person's life-style, politics, religion, or whatever in order to see value in that person. Bob Clarke recently sent a link that proves this beyond a doubt. It had me laughing out loud and you have to admire anyone who can make you do that. See Ellen. and LOL. HAPPY BIRTHDAY Congratulations this time go to Megan Barilla, granddaughter of my sister Rita. Megan is my half grandniece. Relationships can get complicated but I think it is both grand and nice to have a niece like Megan. Ok, I like to play with words as did her great-grandfather, my father..
As I sit down to write this on an almost gone Wednesday morning, I am infused with that feeling of contentment which I have learned to love. The days have been wonderful and there are little after effects of my recent surgical procedure other than a "weak stream" and I was told to expect that until the internal wound heals. I have been devoting extended periods of time to the patio and garden just because it feels good. My mind wanders from subject to subject and I freely allow it to do so. Sometimes I am far in the past, remembering earlier years and imagining years earlier than that. At times I am enjoying the present, as this morning when the air movement was so gentle that it was necessary to look for movement in the leaves and ... yes, there it was, I could, with a little concentration, feel it, The flowers around the trees have grown into glory in their varied hues, some bold and others giving balance and contrast in their delicacy. Of the three Astors planted last fall, one survived and after a tenuous start, has apparently establish a vigorous root system supporting a spurt of growth in foliage and now giving evidences of a multitude of buds, a promise of glory to be. I took a break for lunch, after which Bob and Marie reported that the parish website had been updated. In my preparation of the newsletter announcement, I reviewed the Pastor's Sharings, as I usually do, and found there a mantra he retrieved with from a summer seminar and which fits my present feelings perfectly.
Too blest to be stressed.
I found a place on my Welcome page as a permanent reminder of those
words, nay more than just
Dan and I went to Rocco's Little Italy. I had not been there in many months. I was greeted literally with open arms, the recipient of joyous hugs from Pat, the receptionist, Rocco's mother-in-law, as well as Rocco himself. Caught up in their enthusiastic greeting, I planted a kiss on his cheek. Our waitress was just as happy to see us. Dan ordered stuffed peppers as an appetizer, which were great. While he dinned on a fish special, I enjoyed an old favorite, Capellini with meat sauce and sausage. With generous portions of the stuffed peppers and my entree wrapped to go, and as we sat and enjoyed the occasion, the check having been paid, Rocco delivered the special desert for the day, a berry and bread pudding, topped with whipped cream and a berry sauce. (I love that man) It was scrumptious! Yes, I will be back more often Rocco ... I don't care what my doctor tells me. It just can't get any better than this ... can it? Yes it can, for we are told that "eye has not seen nor the mind imagined what await us in the Kingdom of God". So, as much as I loved this day, I will try not to get caught up in the likes of it. There IS more and better to come and THAT is the goal. In the mean time I take wonderful days like this a a veiled promise of heaven.
Thursday was cloudy and the morning brought a little rain, ... very little. I didn't get to my computer until afternoon. An email was received from a parishioner in gratitude for receiving notification of the death of another. I may use it, with names omitted, as a bulletin ad to get more "include-me" members. People are reluctant to subscribe to more email but his expressed gratitude may entice others to sign up. I, of course had photos to scan (Kelsey) and the story of yesterday to write. That alone would keep me busy but inspiration struck again. Back in the days when the kids (Dan, Anne Marie and Tom) were little I was trying to be creative with the 35mm camera that Harry Lawler got for us in Korea. I took a series of sunset photos at Saganashkee Slough in a southern Cook County forest preserve.. I always thought they could be used, someway, somehow and scanned them to digital some time ago. They have languished in my photo files for years. In one of my sojourns to the gazebo, as my mind wandered from this to that, these old scenes united with my new mantra. .And, the thought occurred that this page was the place for it. Not wanting to add something, taking up more space on the page I simply appended it to the "Spotlight" "flash movie" already at the top of the page. The existing part of the movie was made to move more quickly but you may have scrolled right past it on your way to the "meat" of the page. I invite you to go back to the Spotlight and review not only the newly displayed old artwork but the words that describe the reason for my feeling of contentment with God and this world. Along with the "Links of the Week" at the bottom of this page I will also display a link to the Spotlight portion of the page so you may easily link to the items found in the pane to the right which will change from time to time. Also, did you know that as the oval of light lands on the various subjects displayed there, they are links to major sections of this web site. Just click on them and see what where it takes you. By the way, did you know that the Cal-Sag Channel was named that because it ran between the Little Calumet River and through the Saganashkee Slough (Swamp) east of Lemont, Illinois where it joined the Sanitary and Ship Canal, forming a branch of the waterway between Lake Michigan and the Gulf of Mexico, via the Des Plaines, Illinois, and Mississippi Rivers. Having been dammed to allow the construction of the canal, the slough is now a shallow lake, just a fraction of the size of the huge swamp that once extended from Lamont to Worth, Illinois. The name derives from a chief of the Potawatomi Indians who lived in the area.
It has been a great week, momentous in many ways of which only history will reveal. To me it has been one of satisfaction and joy and continued contentment ... for I am ....
Too blest to be stressed.
Grandpa Don Plefka .
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