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Let us not be
weary in well doing.
~ St. Paul |
Last Friday was sunny and a good day
to stock up in anticipation for a cold blast of air from the North which
held off until late Saturday. I bundled up good Sunday morning for mass.
The recent entry into St Julie's On-Line Book of Intercessions
illustrates well, the reasons I am so happy to be a member of this
parish.
"For the blessing of being a member of St. Julie
parish. Fr. Steve, Fr. Sowa, Sr. Gael and all parishioners give Jerry
and I strength to make our journey of faith each day. Each time we join
in the Eucharist with our community of faith, it reaffirms that we are
His and He lives in us. God bless all at St. Julie's"
Catholic parishes have boundaries and
many people assume that they must attend the parish in their
"boundaries" Indeed many people identify their neighborhood by the name
of their parish. However, the primary purpose of the boundaries is to
insure that the Catholics in a particular area are afforded the
necessary vital services such as funerals, weddings, and baptism of
children even though they may not otherwise find themselves in church.
The boundaries also apply to schools when they are attached to a parish
or group of parishes. However most pastors will accept parishioners who
live outside the boundaries when there is sufficient reason. Those
reasons can run from a willingness to participate in parish ministries
to simply feeling most comfortable there. We have many parishioners form
outside our boundaries. My cohort, Bob Lewis recently reported
finding a new (for him) parish in Florida, a place where he is more
comfortable. One of the features he mentions is the use of "the bells"
at the consecration of the Eucharist. Some parishes use them and some
omit their use after a long tradition of their use. But what is behind
the tradition and why abandon it? The question demanded further thought
in "The Bells".
I felt that I received further
evidence that someone up there is watching over me last Sunday. As mass
started, I reached into my pocket to take out my glasses but stopped as
my hand touched the case. There was a new worship aid booklet for Lent
and with the sunshine brightening the space I could see the words of the
music well enough to read without the 'cheaters', so they remained
unused. I came home and took a cup of coffee into the living room to
review the parish bulletin. I definitely needed the glasses for the much
smaller print but as I pulled them from the case the left lens dropped
out and rolled across the carpet. If that had happened in church ,,, ???
My coffee had to wait as I got out the repair kit and re- assembled the
glasses. .
With wind chills well below zero my
big old Buick with heated lather seats. a welcome blessing this season,
took me to the Halford's house. We then re-bundled to Louis's Steak
House, just minutes away. Dick suggested their special appetizer platter
which, with our ample drinks kept us well occupied for a while. Jan and
I enjoyed their chicken soup which, as we had been warned, had a 'kick'
to it, a very spicy version of the old favorite. My "small" portion of
luscious prime rib was perfect and for Dick and I a B&B was the perfect
follow-up as we sampled a bit of Jan's cake. served with three forks. We
returned to their cozy home for a few hands of cards before I again
braved the cold to be appreciatively greeted by Mikey. I had no sooner
settled in when Anne Marie called ... just checking.
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Talk not of wasted
affection;
affection never was wasted.
~ Henry Wadsworth Longfellow |
Monday morning I discovered that my cold water was
not flowing in the upstairs bathrooms. Obviously, a frozen water pipe!
This has never happened before. Water was flowing in the kitchen and the
pipes extend up from there in a shaft between the walls. The shaft is
open to the basement and is large enough for a small skinny kid to climb
up into it if necessary. That has never been necessary and we don't have
any small skinny kids here anyway! During the construction of the house
I discovered insulation at the bottom of the shaft and notified the
builder that it was open to the attic. They tore out a bathroom wall,
put in a ceiling and reinsulated the attic above it to my satisfaction.
.I knew that being open to the basement, which is always warm, I should
never have a problem. The only thing I can think of is that the very top
of the shaft shares a wall with the attic area above the kitchen and it
may not have been well insulated.
Be that as it may, a call was made to Anne Marie at
work. Did she have any boys available? Joe had just finished a test and
was here in 15 minutes or less. I had a plan. Joe crawled up into the
crawl space below the kitchen and located the bottom of the shaft. An
electric fan, not used in years, was positioned to blow air from the
basement up the shaft. After Joe went back to school, just to help some
other baseball players prepare for another test so they could remain
eligible to play ... he didn't need to take the exam because he has an
"A" in the course... , I remembered that there are unused telephone
outlets in both bathrooms. I took the cover plates off which opened the
wall a bit to allow added warm air between the walls. I left the cold
water taps open and in about an hour the water was flowing normally.
Thanks to the Albano team ... problem solved ... for now. The fan
will remain in place until I am sure it is not needed. I can turn it on
and off by unplugging it from the outlet in the basement.
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Most folks are about
as happy as they make up their minds to be.
~ Abraham Lincoln |
Last
weekend was Kelsey's Turn About dance. Her mother sent a
couple photos. and she is gorgeous. First it was the Proms that I went
to ... many, many years ago, and after that the dances attended by
our children and now, so soon, those of our grand children. There is
that word again ... grandchild hardly fits. But GRAND says it
all. Click on the thumbnails for the grand view.
Kelsey also sent a couple photos. She is pictured here with Ryan
and again with some friends.
While Kelsey was dancing, her father
went down to Carbondale Illinois to witness Nick's first bout. The
Albano boys, all four of them, went down there also to see their cousin
perform. And ... perform he did! His dad reports ;;;
Nick won! First round TKO. His picture made the local papers
yesterday.
Unfortunately we don't have a copy of
the photo. Congratulations Nick!
On the subject of grandchildren, it
was a busy day Sunday for Caitlin and Kelly and even busier for their
parents, The day started with the Ring Ceremony at Marist High School.
Congratulations to Caitlin. From there they rushed home, changed and
drove to Shepard High School for a swim meet. Kelly represented the
family in the already started event and did quite well. Good go Kelly.
There was a very light snow Monday
afternoon. A predicted overnight snow of several inches didn't happen.
I was NOT disappointed. The best news is that it has warmed up a bit,
still below "normal" but the water is still flowing in the pipes!
Our parish Web Ministry has added a
member Joe Beaulieu is a member of our Young Adults Ministry and
having an interest in computers and the internet he volunteered to keep
the Young Adults activity page up to date for us. This is a very active
group in the parish and they are growing. So we welcome his help. .
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Wisdom is offtimes
nearer when we stoop than when we soar.
~ William Wordsworth |
What better way is there to solve a mystery than to
ask the world. I have set up a page to do just that. Peggy has been
diligently trying to solve a couple mysteries in the Packard genealogy.
She finds information, or should I say clues but little documentation
and that is crucial in genealogy. So, I have created a page named "Packard
Family Mysteries". Hopefully someone
interested will do a search for "Packard Family" and be drawn to the
page. Hopefully someone will know something that will help.
I let Mikey out on Tuesday and he came back in with
Joe who had surprised him in the back yard. There had been a light snow
Monday afternoon but the several inches predicted for the night did not
materialize. As Joe cleared away the little that was there it started
snowing again. Thanks for the efforts Joe, but I think it is a loosing
battle.
Bob Lewis sent a gem!
Old age - A gift With a few,
... very few ... changes it fits me to a "T". I love it
Those of you who have made it this far will love it too ... if you have
the right attitude. Those of you who have a way to go can take heart in
what awaits ... if you play your cards right.
I didn't know what got into him but Mikey had me up
to let him out twice in the wee hours Wednesday. He then got me up at
7:30 and I fell into my usual routine until about 9:30 when I settled
into my too comfortable living room. A few minutes later it was 11:30.
You might say I was exercising the prerogatives of Old Age. That,
however, kind of threw off my day and the job of sending out the weekly
parish email newsletter was delayed a bit. In preparing the newsletter I
noticed the item by our pastor thanking the parishioners. When the
people are pleased with their church, they express, not only in prayer,
as above, but also this way: "This year in response to the Annual
Catholic Appeal, parishioners pledged over $102,581. That’s amazing!"
Our target is $73,000 and the parish will be rebated all amounts
received over the target.
I have finally registered this web site with Google
Analytics and placed their tracking code on many of these pages. It is a
time consuming task and I will be adding the code to more pages as time
permits ... or rather, as I allot the time to do it. I keep forgetting
that I am in control of my time ... except for Mikey's priorities ...
and a few other things. It will tell me which pages you guys actually
look at and even how much time you spend on each. No, it doesn't
identify you, that would be invasive and I am not trying to spy on you.
I am trying to determine how effective my efforts are with this web
site. It will be interesting to know, for example, how many people visit
the new "Packard
Family Mysteries". page and if they
find it through a search engine or by following my links through this
web site. The search engines base their rankings of pages to a large
extent on "key words" which the web builders identify for each page
(hidden from view) and how relevant those words are to the actual
content of the page. Especially in the case of my genealogy pages, I
need to get visitors who find my pages using search engines.
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Attention is the most
basic form of love; through it we bless and are blessed.
~ John Tarrant |
The Albano family has been frustrated with insurance
procedures in scheduling a needed surgery to correct the shoulder damage
done in Dom's fall a few weeks ago at work. At first, the companies'
doctor started him on therapy for it without any x-rays or other scan.
That added to the pain. A visit to an orthopedic specialist determined
that he needed immediate surgery to prevent it from healing improperly
and a stop to the therapy which could inflict more damage.. Workman's
Comp insisted on a second opinion, delaying things another week.
Wednesday the consulting doctor agreed with the surgeon and after a
series of calls to Workman's Comp, the go-ahead was authorized. We don't
have a date for the surgery yet but we can start praying that it will be
a total success and recovery will not be too long.
I received an email that said, "Someone Sent you a
Valentines Day Card. Click on the link below to view your eCard". I did
not click the link. I do not click on any link unless I
know the sender and "Someone" isn't good enough. Surprises are nice but
that one could very well be a surprise virus or worm. I hope I haven't
offended anyone but I would rather be safe than sorry.
On Thursday I received the first report on visits to
this web site. There were two visits to the Albano Family page. One was
the result of a search for the words "marc dominick" and the
second was an email referral. Both visitors were from different cities
on the East coast. At this point your imagination can add to the
story ... or not. What we do know is that the search engines can bring
you to peculiar places.
Speaking of Strange ... Mikey usually, with a little
help, gets into my bed and lays on the second pillow until I turn off
the TV. Then, unless he gets too warm, he sleeps in his bed all night, a
foam bed with a fleece cover. At about 4:30 AM Thursday I heard him
moving around and making noises, not his usual, "get up and let me out"
noises but I did anyway. He rather hesitantly followed me down stairs,
unusual because he generally runs down ahead of me. After a brief time
he came back to the door and ran up the stairs, looking for help to get
on my bed. He took his place on the pillow and as I dozed off, I heard
him get to the floor. But soon, he was asking to get up on the bed
again. To keep peace, I helped him up and he repeated the same behavior.
After the third time ... up - down, up - down, up - down ... I pulled
him over to me and held him with his body under the covers and his head
on the pillow. We both went to sleep. A little after 7:00 he was gently
taping my bald dome with his paw and we both got up for our usual
morning activities. Something had disturbed him during the night ... but
what? Had he experienced another seizure? I could find no evidence
of it. All day I wondered as I went about my routine.
I took him to Touch of Class and he was a eager as
ever to go for his bath and trim and visit his friends. Sampson
was there and I am sure they exchanged greetings. While he was there, I
went to Bible Study. By the time I got home the message was waiting to
tell me Mikey was ready to come home. I picked him up just after one of
the Albano boys left with Sampson. Later in the afternoon when I took my
annual Valentines Day shower, I happened to glance at Mikey's bed. There
was the answer to the riddle. He had evidently experienced another
seizure while in his bed. It was stained through the cover and into the
foam. Of course he wouldn't sleep in it after that. I could have washed
the cover but the foam was beyond saving so they went into the garbage.
Mikey will get a new bed.
Pat Bennet sent the following:
Ed was in trouble. He forgot his
wedding anniversary. His wife was really angry. She told him,
'Tomorrow morning, I expect to find a gift in the driveway that goes
from 0 to 200 in less than 6 seconds AND IT BETTER BE THERE!!'
The next morning Ed got up early and left for work. When his wife woke
up she looked out the window and sure enough there was a box
gift-wrapped in the middle of the driveway. Confused, the wife put on
her robe and ran out to the driveway and brought the box back in the
house. Thinking of keys to a new car, she opened it and found a brand
new bathroom scale.
Ed has been missing since Friday. Please pray for him.
Thanks Pat, And we will keep an eye out for Ed. He'll
be the one who keeps looking behind to see if anyone is catching up with
him.
The Thursday evening news here was all about the
shootings at NIU. At that point there was a lot of incomplete
information and conjecture. The identify of the shooter was mot reveled.
All I could think is that he forgot the face of his father. He was a
desperate person who felt wronged. Why these people think that taking
other lives will do anything to provide relief to their problems is
beyond my understanding. We can only pray for the victims and throes who
love them. We can also pray that we will learn and respond to the
factors that motivate this behavior in order to prevent more carnage.
We may also wish to pray for the family of the perpetrator as well as
the man himself. His deeds are done and can not be undone. Revenge must
be removed from our consideration and our society.
I am convinced that these senseless acts would be
more difficult to implement if fire arms were not so readily available.
When this nation was young, the "right" to bare arms was
a
necessity at many levels. These reasons are now gone.
There are better ways to solve our problems or provide recreation.
I am convinced that the state's use of the death
penalty sends the message that to kill solves a problem. You can not
stop killing by killing. Does anyone have common sense? Legalized
abortion sends a message that my life and my agenda are more important
than another life and killing is justified. "Mercy" killing also
cheapens the value of life itself, sending the message that there are
valid reasons to take a life. In reality, our lives are a gift of God
and it is blasphemy to throw away His gifts.
I am convinced that we have gone so far in
"protecting the civil rights of individuals" that we are violating the
rights of society in general which is in danger of being the victim of
misguided or sick individuals who are a danger to themselves and those
around them. We fear "Big Brother" intruding on our right to privacy in
all matters. What are we hiding if we are living moral and law-abiding
lives. But I pray to God that someone will be watching over me if I
become sick or mentally unstable so that I will not harm myself or
others. There is no shame in being helped for we are designed by God to
grow and thrive by helping each other.
I am convinced that we have discarded the teaching of
morality and social responsibility in our public schools in the fear
that those concepts would be considered "religious" in nature. Students
must be schooled in the fact that we compete to better ourselves, not to
defeat and degrade others.
I am convinced that we have, in our advertising and
entertainment industries, appeal to the lowest levels of morality and
values, glorifying greed, self satisfaction and sensationalism above
Christian values. They are foisting upon us a distorted picture of what
the "real world" could be. The media squanders the opportunity to
improve our society and instead desensitizes us to evil.
I am convinced that if the person who committed these
crimes would not of done so if he had a solid faith in God. ... or maybe
even a little faith? My favorite song once was "I did it My Way".
At the time, I had a knowledge of religion but but no real faith,
believing instead that my many accomplishments were due to my efforts
alone. But when things went wrong that left me with a very lonely and
hopeless feeling. My secrete depression was deep and morbid thoughts did
enter my mind. I have since realized that I do nothing
without the help of God and He is always there to pull me out of any
trouble I get into.
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We conquer by
continuing.
~ George Matheson
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By Friday morning we know more of the
details of the tragic events of the previous day. We know the name of
the person who did the killings. We know he was a good student when he
went to the school and that he was "off his medications". We knew little
else that changes what I think about it. We will know more as time goes
on but will we know enough to prevent it from happening again? I pray
that we do.
Mikey did not like the fleece matt
that I substituted for his bed last night and came to sleep with me. He
made his way under the covers and slept through the night.
Peggy has been sending additional
bits of information she has gathered regarding our Packard line of
ancestors. Rather than solve any mysteries they deepen them by giving us
alternate connections. I shall have to revise and expand the new Mystery
page.
Finally ... Don't forget the face of
your father.